I recently had the opportunity to moderate a group for men going through highly conflictual divorces. They have had to contend with a spouse who seek to constantly blame and who seem unable to compromise. Their spouses seem to relish in filing frivolous, expensive, and time consuming legal court motions. Additionally, these men have had to fend off various accusations of abusive behavior and improper conduct.
The group members impressed me with their concerns for their children, as well as, a desire to move on with their lives... Certainly these men are not without their faults, and shortcomings, however their willingness to discuss and learn from others, renewed a sense of hope (in me) for them..
The whole experience got me thinking about how someone might avoid falling into the "rabbit hole" of the high conflict divorce. I'll share some of my thoughts about this subject over the next few blog postings...
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